One Person Can Change the World
Farquhar Honors College
Teagle Foundation - Knowledge for Freedom Program
Forgiveness or Vengeance
A Psychological, Multi-cultural and Personal Examination
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Dante-marc
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June 29, 2023
The title above is the topic for my change project. My change project will hopefully take the form of either an op-ed or be presented at a conference where it will explore the concepts of forgiveness and vengeance through both a psychological, multi-cultural and my own personal perspective. My change Project will comprise of two main objectives. My first objective is to argue why forgiveness as opposed to revenge is more often than not the better path towards healing from an offence brought on by another in addition to generating a healthier and brighter future for those that have been wronged in some form or another. My second objective would be to get my audience to better understand both concepts, such as how their meanings vary amongst cultures, the pros and cons of both, misconceptions surrounding both concepts, the psychological impact both have on the human mind and how I have come to personal view both concepts as a result of my own experiences. Such experiences would be my interactions with bullies that I have had in the past as well as my parents, that had led me to feel and lot of resent and anger towards them and that while I would not say that these feelings have completely vanished, through the practice of forgiveness I have been able to better process these negative emotions as well as move forward in my life. Additionally, forgiveness has put me in a better place mentally, and while there were moments that I I did seek revenge, ultimately it didn’t improve my situation or made me feel any better about myself long-term.

Source of photo: Brody, Jane E. “Ignoring Science at Our Peril.” The New York Times, 12 Mar. 2018, https://www.nytimes.com/2018/03/12/well/ignoring-science-at-our-peril.html Accessed 12, June 2023
Public Resource List
Toussaint, Loren, et al. “Forgiveness, Rumination, and Depression in United States and Korea: A Cross-Cultural Mediation Study.” Wiley Online Library, 14 June 2022, onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1002/jclp.23376. Accessed 28, June 2023
"Forgiveness, rumination, and depression in the United States and Korea: A Cross-Cultural Mediation Study" whose objective was to find how forgiveness, rumination and depression are interrelated among cultural groups. The U.S. is known to be an individualistic culture (a culture in which independence/ self-reliance and looser social ties are encouraged) in comparison to South Korea which is known for being a collectivistic culture (a culture in which strong social ties are encouraged such as among family and members of one’s community). This article added sustenance to my change project as it provides valuable information on how different cultural groups would view the practice of forgiveness, based on multiple factors such as intrapersonal motives which are more common in individualistic cultures vs interpersonal motives which are more common among collectivistic cultures (Toussaint, 2022). Moreover, this article contains high credibility as its authors are authorities in the field of psychology and one author had actually received their degree from a university in South Korea, while the rest got theirs from the U.S., this fact helps to increase the reliability of the cross-cultural study. Another strength would be the measures employed were cross-culturally validated and showed good psychometric properties (Toussaint, 2022) this point would then further increase the reliability of the results produced by the study. On the other hand, there are quite a handful of limitations shown throughout the study; the sample size used in both studies were of comprised solely of college students in both countries which means that the results cannot be generalized to the total population of either country, this lowers the reliability of the study.Another weakness would be that these data are cross-sectional, and causality and directionality cannot be assumed (Toussaint, 2022), this creates an uncertainty that it is the type of culture that both countries have that directly leads to the figures produced in the study. Additionally, measures of offense-specific, state-like experiences of forgiveness and rumination exist and may be useful in future research on this topic and finally, biological pathways that may underlie associations between forgiveness and depression have been discussed, but the present data do not speak to these potential biological mediators (Toussaint, 2022). While these two points show the need for further research on the topic, it is acknowledgment helps to convey a sense of self awareness among the authors of the study, which increases the reliability of the article. Overall, this article is highly credible and moderately reliable.
Ikegawa, Mio. “How Different Cultures Affect Perceptions of Justice.” Cue Media, 2 Feb. 2022, onstarplus.com/archives/2927.
"How Different Cultures Affect Perceptions of Justice" is an article, is an article that talks about how the definition of justice has changed throughout time, take a variety of forms based on culture, and vary amongst individuals in any form of culture. This article will contribute to the justice aspect of my research paper as it not only outlines how different forms of justice exist in the world, but also how some forms are more common among individualistic cultural groups and other more collectivistic cultural groups. This article while written by someone who is not an authority on the topic, the author does use references from authorities however thus increasing the credibility of the article. The author using authorities as references also increases the reliability of the article. Overall, the article is somewhat credible and somewhat reliable.
Jayawickreme, Eranda. “Is Redemption Redeeming?” Psychology Today, 8 Nov. 2022, www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/pathways-flourishing/202211/is-redemption-redeeming?amp.
The article "Is Redemption Redeeming?" Focuses on three key points: the simplistic view Americans tend to view the idea of redemption and how harmful it is to our general well-being; Americans tend to focus on looking for benefits in the immediate aftermath of adversity; and a more realistic acceptance of adversity's impact can help us move on in a way that is ultimately beneficial to us and society. This article helps add information to the redemptive section of my change project. It does this by providing a comparative analysis of how American tend to view redemption in contrast to view both he and many other Sri Lanka natives felt after the civil war in the 80’s and 90’s about the supposed immediate benefits of experiencing adversity. The article is written by an authority in human psychology and is a native from Sri Lanka who had witness the atrocities and aftermath of the country’s civil war, this would then make the author highly credible in talking about this comparative analysis. The author’s authority also increases the reliability of the article. Overall, the author has high credibility and reliability.
Khoddam, Rubin. “The Psychology of Forgiveness.” Psychology Today, 16 Sept. 2014, www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-addiction-connection/201409/the-psychology-forgiveness?amp.
"The Psychology of Forgiveness" is an article written by clinical psychologist Rubin Khoddam. It talks about what forgiveness is and misconceptions surrounding it, the benefits of forgiveness and the physiological impacts being forgiving and unforgiving have on the human body. This article contributes much to my project as completes a dive into the psychological portion of my topic. The author of the article is an authority in the field of psychology which then increases the credibility of the article. Their expertise also increases the reliability of the article as well. Overall, the article has high credibility and moderate reliability.
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